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Hmhm. I've heard the same thing from a lot of guys on the other forum site I'm on. It's pretty sad they'll just leave without an explanation but shows a lack of emotional integrity to not give a reason for responding further. Though to be fair sometimes life gets crazy. Mine right now is a clusterfuck and I'm not even half way done with any of the things I needed to get done this week. Just thinking about it sends me reeling. I really don't want to file for an extension but I might have to at this rate. x.x Anywhay, if you leave message me your Discord or whathaveyou because I want to continue to talk to you.

Is the game really rigged? I am not currently in the dating pool, so I don't know what kinda shenanigans people are up to. I do notice guys have a hard time getting girls to message back. Not really sure why except maybe they want to see more effort from potential partners? I know I don't accept friend requests unless someone has at least said hi to me. Am I the only person you've talked to on here or are there at least a few who keep you entertained?

It's only rude if you don't reply for months, like a certain person on here. He responds like a turtle who just took an edible. lol As for the two that found each other, I'd have to see their names to remember, but there are two of them. Out of the handful that actually participate in the forums, it's not good odds but it's not zero either. So if you're the gambling sort, it's worth a shot. Most you'll come away is with memes. Though there are some creepers lurking on here. I hope you don't run into those. :( As for cons, finding cons or small get-togethers like DnD groups is a great way to find friends to hang out with. Admittedly it is hard to maintain friendships as an adult, but with some diligence it's possible. Until then, online friends can keep you going. What other dating sites are you trying out? Is your profile the same there as it is on here?

No worries about replying late. Reply when you feel like it. Yeah, I've heard of two people finding each other on this 'dating site' but most everyone else is just sharing and stealing memes. Which is fine. I also hear it's a good place to arrange meet ups at cons. Have you been to a con before? Do you live near a big city or are you in rural America like me?

I see. So that's what you're here for then. What's the place you live like as far as socialization opportunities is concerned? Since you're into geeky stuff, are there any DnD groups, MTG, anime cons, writing groups, etc?

Ah, so you're about four timezones east of me. I'm in West Coast/Seattle region. What's your irl support network look like? Do you have many/any irl friends and family who have your back even just a little?

Of course. Four months is a pretty fresh wound. I'm very glad you have this project to keep yourself going. If you ever need beta readers or an editor, I can offer some help to you. Where in the world are you living currently?

Sorry to hear you had to go through a breakup like that. How long ago was this? I'm glad you had at least something to comfort you in tough times. And no worries about long comments. Write entire novels if you want. What matters most is you can express yourself and not feel judged. :)

Interesting. Very interesting. Life's been lifeing me right in the guts lately, so progress on my projects has been slow but steady. How is your work/life balance?

Ooo a secret project? That sounds amazingly fun. I'm curious but I won't press it. Do you feel like you're making good progress on this project? How's the rest of life treating you lately?