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OtakuKanan

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Single, Straight
3日 ago
Louisville, KY
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ouji_kurai97
Yo! How's it going?
otakukanan
Thanks for the response. Sorry to hear about your issues, I hope you're able to get back on track soon. I have a good friend that I think is in a similar boat after his brother died. It really changes people. I think we're unlikely to go back to how we were, but we can still become something new.
chocopyro
I've never used a pick up line in my fucking life, except when I was making fun of them, or making a joke at my own expense. Number of women I've longterm? 2. Short term? 6. Number of unrequited romances I've pursued? 5. Number of times I've had someone crush on me without even knowing it? 4 Number of women I've said no to? 4 How? Fuck it, if you think you have good chemistry with someone, say it early, then ask them if they're interested in exploring the option of trying to figure out what you are to them. It doesn't need to mean anything at that point. Putting it off too long is how guys like us get friend zoned. And while talking isn't my forte, my workaround was to DO interesting things with them so that I would actually have things I could talk about with them. I should ALSO note that... Yeah, at this point in my life, I've kinda given up on romance, and that's due to a myriad of reasons pertaining to my own shadow work and healing after my brother died, and also my feelings of having just missed my oppertunity. I peaked late in life, and just as I was finally starting to get into the swing of things, tragedy struck, I spent 3 years in a hole, and I was no longer that version of myself when I emerged. I wouldn't wish the me right now on anyone. XD
otakukanan
It's true, I may have to resort to this. Short and sweet answer. Straight to the point.
lewd_araragi
You try bringing a knife? https://media1.tenor.com/m/fYoFnY5ktdEAAAAC/thi-ra-may-chon-cai-chet-so-you-have-chosen-death.gif
otakukanan
Welcome to MO. I'd say desktop is better. You're not too old. Personally I'd say this site is better for making friends than as a dating site due to it being a niche field and worldwide. I personally don't find many people that live near me. With that said, I do like what the site offers and hope to see it grow.
otakukanan
I've noticed for a while lately that I'm just not great at holding / carrying a conversation. I do see on dating sites that many women say they want a good pickup line, or someone that can hold a conversation. I just feel that whatever I end up doing, just amounts to small talk. I don't really do the cheesy pickup lines and...I just don't feel all that funny and spontaneous anymore. In the end, it seems many women barley reply or keep things brief with their comment, which makes me think they just aren't interested, so I usually just back off. With that said, I see plenty of people that seem more boring than me and they seem to be in relationships somehow. Is there some way for more introverted people to enjoy being together? Personally I enjoy doing activities like sports, games, trying new things, etc, but I could enjoy doing so without much conversation. At least until I get to know someone more, I doubt I would talk much, but it's because of that, I can't get to know someone. I'd like some thoughts from both sides - women, and quiet guys that are in a happy relationship.
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