OtakuKanan

Welcome to MO. I'd say desktop is better. You're not too old. Personally I'd say this site is better for making friends than as a dating site due to it being a niche field and worldwide. I personally don't find many people that live near me. With that said, I do like what the site offers and hope to see it grow.

I've noticed for a while lately that I'm just not great at holding / carrying a conversation. I do see on dating sites that many women say they want a good pickup line, or someone that can hold a conversation. I just feel that whatever I end up doing, just amounts to small talk. I don't really do the cheesy pickup lines and...I just don't feel all that funny and spontaneous anymore. In the end, it seems many women barley reply or keep things brief with their comment, which makes me think they just aren't interested, so I usually just back off. With that said, I see plenty of people that seem more boring than me and they seem to be in relationships somehow. Is there some way for more introverted people to enjoy being together? Personally I enjoy doing activities like sports, games, trying new things, etc, but I could enjoy doing so without much conversation. At least until I get to know someone more, I doubt I would talk much, but it's because of that, I can't get to know someone. I'd like some thoughts from both sides - women, and quiet guys that are in a happy relationship.