¡Hola! I'm Megan!
Right off the bat, yes I'm transgender, but I've genital dysphoria, so, were I to have kids, I'd have to adopt. (Also, whoever started the idea that tall/trans women don't like to be held by there partner, or are the type to prefer being in a masculine gender role, and I, need to exchange a few words (cause they were just being malicious jerks))
Technically, I'm Pansexual and demisexual, so feel free to message me, if you like? We might be able to hit it off, aye?
Also, full disclosure, i take anxiety meds, so I'm a bit flighty with certain things (so, like, please have patience if i ask the same question more than once)
So anyway... I'm an INFP, empath, blue Jean Femme; I'm here for something more real! Aaaaaand... Oh! the type of person I really need is, like... somebody who is:
kind, understanding, who takes an interest in their partner, maybe a bit impulsive, haha, who's like, honest, who's glad to go out and do things (not a boring stick In the mud, haha,) who isn't afraid to be affectionate, isn't afraid of life, and new experiences, and who can be, like, assertive or confident (not controlling though, you know?) (Basically easy going but you know what you want and you're not afraid to get it haha) (btw, selfish lovers need not apply X'D)
Btw, if you're a feminist and believe in equal give/take love, that's a total plus!
Also, please don't message me if you find my being trans just something you're interested in as a novelty, and not actually being interested in getting to know me as a person. It's insensitive and mean, you know?... It, like, really show's you aren't interested in me as a human, you know?
But anyway... back on topic! Lol.
I like a quiet, clean, warm, comfortable environment (ie. Low volume, candles, aroma therapy oils, fuzzy critters, lack of clutter, etc lol)??.
And... I would have to say, my tastes are pretty Boho... Like, I try to not live a stressed life, haha.
I'm an empath so please be understanding of that, because I sure will be of your things (as long as they aren't, too, weird haha XD 3.)
I'm also looking for friends so whatever really, just message me if the both of us sound compatible in some way.
I'm also a Shoujo Otaku (something i really do love! Lol.)
I'm living in Louisiana (cenla) and I'm a student who is trying to get her BA in English, (not to be a teacher, though, lol)
And aside from that, I play the bass!
BY THE WAY, IF YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS FOR ME FEEL FREE TO ASK! I'M AN OPEN BOOK! ??!
The following are the results of a personality test, i thought it might be helpful in explaining me
(PLEASE DO READ IT, IT'D TOTALLY MEAN A LOT TO ME 3)
Megan is not a prude or a "saint," but the overall answer patterns suggest that Megan is probably very cautious about to whom and under what circumstances to surrender to romantic urges.
In wooing such individuals, you may find that it takes them a while to "warm up" to you, though this should not be misinterpreted as disinterest. Sexually speaking, they may not appear easily aroused, despite being totally titillated, with many quite adept at subduing their response until you've gained their trust. Once their guard is down, you will find the rewards great, with these individuals often wildly uninhibited and receptive.
What Makes This Type So Attractive? NOT to be mistaken for an erotophobe (one who is fearful of sexual intimacy,) the low seduceability sort captures the interests of many who are into the following…
Partners who haven't established sexual preferences. Whether conservative, shy, rigid, and/or introverted, when coaxed out of their shell, these individuals may decide that you are their lucky guide in introducing them to a wide variety of sex play.
Playing hard-to-get. Though perhaps not done intentionally, this type can keep woo'ers at arm's length, ultimately luring those who like to chase and the achievement of having been crowned the "lucky one." The ultimate reward for such physical and emotional partner selectivity is the stronger shot at a long-term, monogamous relationship.
Mystery. At times a "hard nut to crack," this sort can be intriguing in slowly revealing themselves, making everything worth so much more when they do so.
Tips for Tempting This Type:
Megan is probably grounded and realistic, and quite good at sniffing out insincerity and ulterior motives. So… Don't play games or even bother trying to manipulate this person for a mere sexual encounter. Do be upfront, direct, and completely honest with this person – you've few chances to impress someone like this.
Megan may be relatively naïve – a "clean slate" for romantic and sexual experiences. So… Don't be sexually explicit. Do take on the role of teacher, introducing this individual to life's sensual pleasures outside of the bedroom first. So… Don't come on too strong, too fast. Do show class, patience, reasonable amount of self-disclosure or they'll show you the door.
Bottom Line: It's important not to play games with this person, So make sure that you're consistent in what you say and do online and offline. At the same time, don't be afraid to flirt with this type – and by this I mean mostly projecting good energy and letting them know that you find them attractive.
FLIRTING STYLES THAT TURN ME ON
1. Playful and natural (someone who lets the inner child shine through).
2. Witty (someone who draws you in with words and quick thinking).
3. Confident (people who are direct and zero in on what they want and go for it – basically a person who will ultimately have the upper hand in seducing their partner).
FLIRTING STYLES TURN ME OFF
1. Mysterious and vague (a person who’s a little elusive and seems difficult to pin down).
2. Coy (someone who’s a little reclusive and who plays hard to get).
3. Manipulative (someone who sends mixed signals and leaves you wondering if they are interested in you or not).
Know My Preferred Pace
When it comes to talking to Megan about an offline meeting or date, Megan prefers to have someone communicate with them via:
telephone
email
in person
Generally speaking, Megan prefers communicating with someone online at least four days to a week before meeting them offline. Therefore, Megan may well want to talk to friends about you and get their feedback. Or, Megan may well be trying not to get too caught up in the moment. Allow this person some time and space before pushing to meet.
My favorite conversation topics – in Megan's own words!
Our daily goings on.
Hobbies
Family
My least favorite conversation topics – in Megan's own words!
The Holocaust
Dead animals
S.T.D.s
Megan's answer patterns suggest there should be a good response to someone whose attitude or temperament is downright effervescent.
Bottom Line: Show off – even exude – the side of you that is high energy and even a little wild. Megan wants to see your sense of humor, creativity and intelligence as well as a positive attitude throughout your words and actions.
Building on the "approach" is the way you handle actual dates. Dates should be fun for both individuals and allow the couple to begin knowing each other on deeper level than what is possible with casual online dating.
Right off the bat, yes I'm transgender, but I've genital dysphoria, so, were I to have kids, I'd have to adopt. (Also, whoever started the idea that tall/trans women don't like to be held by there partner, or are the type to prefer being in a masculine gender role, and I, need to exchange a few words (cause they were just being malicious jerks))
Technically, I'm Pansexual and demisexual, so feel free to message me, if you like? We might be able to hit it off, aye?
Also, full disclosure, i take anxiety meds, so I'm a bit flighty with certain things (so, like, please have patience if i ask the same question more than once)
So anyway... I'm an INFP, empath, blue Jean Femme; I'm here for something more real! Aaaaaand... Oh! the type of person I really need is, like... somebody who is:
kind, understanding, who takes an interest in their partner, maybe a bit impulsive, haha, who's like, honest, who's glad to go out and do things (not a boring stick In the mud, haha,) who isn't afraid to be affectionate, isn't afraid of life, and new experiences, and who can be, like, assertive or confident (not controlling though, you know?) (Basically easy going but you know what you want and you're not afraid to get it haha) (btw, selfish lovers need not apply X'D)
Btw, if you're a feminist and believe in equal give/take love, that's a total plus!
Also, please don't message me if you find my being trans just something you're interested in as a novelty, and not actually being interested in getting to know me as a person. It's insensitive and mean, you know?... It, like, really show's you aren't interested in me as a human, you know?
But anyway... back on topic! Lol.
I like a quiet, clean, warm, comfortable environment (ie. Low volume, candles, aroma therapy oils, fuzzy critters, lack of clutter, etc lol)??.
And... I would have to say, my tastes are pretty Boho... Like, I try to not live a stressed life, haha.
I'm an empath so please be understanding of that, because I sure will be of your things (as long as they aren't, too, weird haha XD 3.)
I'm also looking for friends so whatever really, just message me if the both of us sound compatible in some way.
I'm also a Shoujo Otaku (something i really do love! Lol.)
I'm living in Louisiana (cenla) and I'm a student who is trying to get her BA in English, (not to be a teacher, though, lol)
And aside from that, I play the bass!
BY THE WAY, IF YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS FOR ME FEEL FREE TO ASK! I'M AN OPEN BOOK! ??!
The following are the results of a personality test, i thought it might be helpful in explaining me
(PLEASE DO READ IT, IT'D TOTALLY MEAN A LOT TO ME 3)
Megan is not a prude or a "saint," but the overall answer patterns suggest that Megan is probably very cautious about to whom and under what circumstances to surrender to romantic urges.
In wooing such individuals, you may find that it takes them a while to "warm up" to you, though this should not be misinterpreted as disinterest. Sexually speaking, they may not appear easily aroused, despite being totally titillated, with many quite adept at subduing their response until you've gained their trust. Once their guard is down, you will find the rewards great, with these individuals often wildly uninhibited and receptive.
What Makes This Type So Attractive? NOT to be mistaken for an erotophobe (one who is fearful of sexual intimacy,) the low seduceability sort captures the interests of many who are into the following…
Partners who haven't established sexual preferences. Whether conservative, shy, rigid, and/or introverted, when coaxed out of their shell, these individuals may decide that you are their lucky guide in introducing them to a wide variety of sex play.
Playing hard-to-get. Though perhaps not done intentionally, this type can keep woo'ers at arm's length, ultimately luring those who like to chase and the achievement of having been crowned the "lucky one." The ultimate reward for such physical and emotional partner selectivity is the stronger shot at a long-term, monogamous relationship.
Mystery. At times a "hard nut to crack," this sort can be intriguing in slowly revealing themselves, making everything worth so much more when they do so.
Tips for Tempting This Type:
Megan is probably grounded and realistic, and quite good at sniffing out insincerity and ulterior motives. So… Don't play games or even bother trying to manipulate this person for a mere sexual encounter. Do be upfront, direct, and completely honest with this person – you've few chances to impress someone like this.
Megan may be relatively naïve – a "clean slate" for romantic and sexual experiences. So… Don't be sexually explicit. Do take on the role of teacher, introducing this individual to life's sensual pleasures outside of the bedroom first. So… Don't come on too strong, too fast. Do show class, patience, reasonable amount of self-disclosure or they'll show you the door.
Bottom Line: It's important not to play games with this person, So make sure that you're consistent in what you say and do online and offline. At the same time, don't be afraid to flirt with this type – and by this I mean mostly projecting good energy and letting them know that you find them attractive.
FLIRTING STYLES THAT TURN ME ON
1. Playful and natural (someone who lets the inner child shine through).
2. Witty (someone who draws you in with words and quick thinking).
3. Confident (people who are direct and zero in on what they want and go for it – basically a person who will ultimately have the upper hand in seducing their partner).
FLIRTING STYLES TURN ME OFF
1. Mysterious and vague (a person who’s a little elusive and seems difficult to pin down).
2. Coy (someone who’s a little reclusive and who plays hard to get).
3. Manipulative (someone who sends mixed signals and leaves you wondering if they are interested in you or not).
Know My Preferred Pace
When it comes to talking to Megan about an offline meeting or date, Megan prefers to have someone communicate with them via:
telephone
in person
Generally speaking, Megan prefers communicating with someone online at least four days to a week before meeting them offline. Therefore, Megan may well want to talk to friends about you and get their feedback. Or, Megan may well be trying not to get too caught up in the moment. Allow this person some time and space before pushing to meet.
My favorite conversation topics – in Megan's own words!
Our daily goings on.
Hobbies
Family
My least favorite conversation topics – in Megan's own words!
The Holocaust
Dead animals
S.T.D.s
Megan's answer patterns suggest there should be a good response to someone whose attitude or temperament is downright effervescent.
Bottom Line: Show off – even exude – the side of you that is high energy and even a little wild. Megan wants to see your sense of humor, creativity and intelligence as well as a positive attitude throughout your words and actions.
Building on the "approach" is the way you handle actual dates. Dates should be fun for both individuals and allow the couple to begin knowing each other on deeper level than what is possible with casual online dating.
