kagenohana

@yaashat I could say the same for your outlook. You go on a tangent about how I'm entitled when really truly I dont understand how people work and was just asking for advice, which is taking my question in the highest negative light on your first though on the matter, which is evidence of an overall cynical outlook on life. The words I speak and type have no second meanings. I dont know what I'm doing, so I'm asking a community meant to be understanding for advice on the matter. But its standard logic: If A, then B, if B therefore C. If not C, then either A or B is faulted. So, if Response (C) isnt there, then I'm not attractive enough physically or in personality (A), or I'm not approaching correctly (B). Statistically speaking I know I'm not going to be attractive to at least 50% of the entirety of users, so nbd. But out of the other 50%, if only 75% of them are a match personality wise and and 100% of those matches dont answer, it's clearly a fault in my approach when messaging. As for my profile, I just created this one yesterday so its unrefined. And the dating profiles in question have everything about me on them. All my interests, who I am, my dreams and goals as well as what I'm looking for. Beings that I'm always traveling (3 wk minimum gone, 7 days maximum home) it's next to impossible to find people in the "natural flow of life" which is why I'm even online to try. I dont "expect" a response from anyone, I'm just trying to figure out how to increase my chances because what I'm doing doesnt work. Now, take the past 4 years into consideration, messaging well over a hundred different women each year that have profiles saying they have the same interests and similar goals and wants but none ever message back, unless they're fake profiles and it's a camgirl trying to get me to buy her porn subscription. Anyone would believe they are doing something wrong after 4 years of the same results. I need help but I dont know what questions to ask. I just know something isnt working and I want to figure out what that is. I feel like a computer throwing up an unknown error message while my core programming runs endlessly in the background

I can't ever seem to get a response on dating sites. I have a career and make good money, I'm a loyal sappy romantic lovable goofball that is 100% myself at all times. I travel for my business so it's hard to meet people. I'm straightforward and direct, so maybe "Hi I'm Devan, you're radiant and we have a lot of common interests and I think we would vibe, how are you tonight?" isnt the best approach?? I don't know what I'm doing wrong.